Power, a fascinating and dark faculty that permeates all the desires and pleasures of the human body. What do men and might have in common? Men may not say it enough, but some men want their sexual partner to be dominant in their carnal frolics.
A dominatrix assumes a dominant role in a sexual or sensual scenario or relationship. As a dominatrix, your partner is submissive, who agrees to respect all your rules and desires.
How to become a dominatrix and conquer your partner in bed?
You do not need to be in the best physical condition or to know the Kamasutra by heart to dominate your partner in bed. Just be yourself! Also, a man will find it incredibly sexy when a woman takes control during sex.
In a dominatrix-dominated relationship, the dominatrix puts in place many practices and techniques to exercise her power over her partner.
Here are all the tips for learning how to be a dominatrix and how to rule in the den of pleasure
Excite him!
Ladies, if you want to see your partner squirm with pleasure and make him feel like it, get him excited! For that, you can resort to sex toys, accessories or a very sensual and sexy outfit.
Inflict him a correction!
When you learn to become a dominatrix, you need to understand that one of the things you have to do is institute a punishment. He will be punished when he breaks the rules during the game.
Aside from the “you’ve been a very naughty boy” which has almost become a cliché in erotic games, there are other ways to punish like a real dominatrix. You can suppress one of her senses, for example. Blindfold him and tie his hands if you wish, he won’t be able to do anything and will be at your mercy. You will have all the power!
The game is worth the reward!
Part of the dominant dynamic is to distribute rewards. You have to prepare some tips for his obedience or behaviour. Aphrodisiac foods are good examples.
Preparing the way you will conduct your sensual game
You need to set a date and time, plan the place and decorate it with accessories and furniture, if necessary.
Although the situation is going to be a surprise, you must consider its activities.
You can send him hot messages during the day to prepare the desire, don’t pretend, say what you can think.
Remember to be safe
Before gambling, you and your partner must establish limits and basic safety rules. A safe word must be agreed upon in advance. Besides, throughout the scenario, you and your partner must also respect safety.
Play roles to spice up your sex!
Everyone knows it, uniforms are exciting! For you, role-playing is a fantastic alternative to take control. Transform yourself into a nurse or a policewoman for one night to make him or her crazy with pleasure. Be creative and choose any role to play. Shyness has never been a good hostess.
Get the right outfit!
To be a great dominatrix, turn into “Chrisitan Grey” with a whip in one hand and handcuffs in the other. A touch of spice and sexy in your outfit will turn on your partner. Think about wearing sexy black lingerie with garter belts, a thong or a thong with lace. Black boots with shiny stiletto heels are also a great addition to the dominatrix’s outfit. And to finish
The right mentality!
The foundation is laid; you have confidence in yourself? Do you feel powerful and dominating? But that’s not all! Having the right attitude towards the other person is often the problem that most people encounter. Because how will your partner react to your sudden desire for domination? Will he like it? Will he accept it? These are questions that a woman is bound to ask herself, but the answer is straightforward.
Each person is different and unique, so try it, give it a try. There are no ideal dominant attitudes. It’s up to you to take things in hand gently at first so as not to disturb the man, then let yourself go into the realm of pleasure. Your partner will be fulfilled and will ask for more.
