Squirting is a mystery to many men. It’s something girls talk to them about or learn about online, but rarely seems to happen in real life. However, female ejaculation is very real, and surprisingly easy to achieve, but only if you master the right sexual techniques. By following the advice of sexual experts, you can give your partner intense and upsetting orgasms every time.
What is squirting?
Sexual adventurers have known what squirting is since the dawn of time. The ancient Chinese philosophers compared it to the expulsion of sweet nectar by flowering plants.
Today, we know that squirting is a key element of a fully expressed female orgasm. As women approach orgasm, their prostate fluid builds up due to the movement of hormones in the body. The more aroused women are, the more fluid accumulates in the small glands surrounding their G-spot.
When they come, this fluid must be released from the body and emerges as a milky white or cloudy liquid with a sweet or slightly salty taste. Often, this ejaculation is accompanied by the most intense part of the orgasm, but this is not always the case. Sometimes ejaculation and orgasm occur within a few minutes of each other. Sometimes there is no connection at all.
Many women also find it very difficult to ejaculate during sex, while some women ejaculate all the time. It’s a real mystery, but it’s always worth experimenting to see if you can do it. The truth is that scientists have not studied squirting as thoroughly as other aspects of sex, and we still don’t know why it happens. But it’s clear that women who experience more intense and passionate orgasms tend to squirt, so men who want to satisfy their partners should know what this is all about.
How do you get to that point?
Find the G-spot
Squirting is closely related to the woman’s G-spot. If men can find this magical place, they have a good chance of squirting their mistress when they make love. But how do we locate it?
Most experts agree that the female G spot is located on the upper part of the vaginal wall, about halfway between the cervix and the vaginal opening. It is often a bit rough, resembling the surface of a walnut. Sometimes the female G spot can be a few centimetres inside the vaginal cavity, making it difficult to reach. Try bending your middle finger and gently looking for it. If you can’t find the G spot, sex toys are a great alternative. Many of them have been specially designed to bend upwards to make it easier to find the G-spot.
When making love, different positions can also make it easier to reach the G-spot. If missionary sex doesn’t work, try the “butterfly” position. Dating from the Kamasutra, the butterfly position involves the woman lying on her back and placing her legs on her lover’s shoulders. It allows a deeper penetration, an excellent way to touch the G spot every time.
Maximizing the chances of squirting
When you try to squirt your mistress, preparation is essential. For women, muscle exercises can make a big difference. If they manage to tone their pelvic muscles, the chances of ejaculation become much higher. Sex experts generally recommend that women do a few Kegel exercises every day to get that muscle tone. It’s simply a matter of tightening the pelvic muscles in short bursts of 5 to 10 seconds, then loosening them and repeating the process for about 5 minutes.
Women can also practice touching their G-spot on their own. With the right sex toys, they can apply enough pressure on their G-spot to cause ejaculation. A little vibration does a lot of good here, so invest in a high quality toy if you can. Women also need to urinate directly before intercourse. This seems to make them much more likely to ejaculate when they reach orgasm.
Unleash your passion with the right technique
Most sex experts believe that it takes between 20 and 30 minutes to get a squirting, so it doesn’t happen instantly. It is good to have plenty of lube on hand to avoid any inconvenience and to take the time to find a position that suits both partners. Any distraction can cause the whole effort to fail. However, men should be aware that when you manipulate a woman’s G spot, you greatly increase the likelihood that she will need to urinate. So don’t be offended if she has to get up to pee halfway through. This is perfectly normal. In fact, it’s a sign that you’re on the right track.
While you are rubbing her G spot, you should also be careful to stimulate her clitoris. The combined stimulation of both erogenous zones will increase her excitement and the likelihood of ejaculation. When women feel that orgasm is approaching, they need to tighten their pelvic muscles, then relax and tighten them again. This acts like a pump, preparing to expel the fluids that build up in her prostate glands.
Be patient to get results
Men must learn to be patient and sensual. Create a relaxed atmosphere and prepare for long foreplay. Don’t rush into penetration, adjust to his natural rhythm and you’ll see results in no time.
When you try to make her ejaculate, it is essential that both partners are relaxed and do not put pressure on each other. Women shouldn’t expect miraculous orgasms every time, and men shouldn’t be offended if they can’t make their partner squirt.
As has already been said, ejaculation is a mystery, even to the scientific community, so you probably won’t be able to induce it every time you make love. Unrealistic expectations are likely to make it harder to achieve, so relax and enjoy. Men also need to think about their motivations. Do they really want to give their partner an intense sexual experience or are they pursuing a personal fetish? If their partner isn’t ready for the adventure, they will almost certainly be disappointed.
Enjoy the aftermath of an orgasm
When you succeed in bringing your Mistress to a torrid orgasm, the experience can be incredibly intense. Don’t worry if she feels weak and tired after the experience. Her senses have been overworked and her body will be briefly exhausted. Whenever you have prolonged sex, it’s a good idea to have water nearby to rehydrate you, especially when you bring her to a hot orgasm. That way, you can recover quickly and get back to it in a few minutes.
If you can’t get her to squirt, it’s not the end of the story. Don’t despair. Try different positions. Buy a new sex toy and see if it makes a difference. The fact is that ejaculation is a matter of trial and error, and there are no guarantees. So try again and again. Eventually you’ll find a way to succeed.
